{"id":3270,"date":"2023-10-16T16:26:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-16T16:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kisurfschool.gypsea-agency.fr\/boyfriend-syndrom\/"},"modified":"2026-05-04T12:50:59","modified_gmt":"2026-05-04T12:50:59","slug":"boyfriend-syndrom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kisurfschool.com\/de\/boyfriend-syndrom\/","title":{"rendered":"Boyfriend-Syndrom"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_section et_pb_section_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_section_regular et_block_section\" >\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_row et_pb_row_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et_block_row\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_d4_element et_pb_column_4_4 et_pb_column et_pb_column_0  et_pb_css_mix_blend_mode et-last-child et_block_column\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_module et_d4_element et_pb_text et_pb_text_0  et_pb_text_align_left et_pb_bg_layout_light\">\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"et_pb_text_inner\"><p>Die Angebote von Surfkursen f\u00fcr M\u00e4dchen, die von einer Surflehrerin geleitet werden, sind sehr beliebt. Es gibt wahrscheinlich eine soziologische Erkl\u00e4rung, aber ich werde mich mit einer anderen Erkl\u00e4rung besch\u00e4ftigen, die mit dem <strong>Boyfriend-Syndrom<\/strong> zu tun hat. <\/p>\n<h2>Definition<\/h2>\n<p>Surfen hat einen <strong>hohen Suchtfaktor<\/strong>. Wenn ein erfahrener Surfer mit seiner Anf\u00e4nger-Freundin surfen m\u00f6chte, nimmt er sie in 90% der F\u00e4lle mit in <strong>die gro\u00dfen Wellen am Grund,<\/strong> die nicht ihrem Niveau entsprechen, und verleidet ihr das Surfen, indem er sie unter <strong>gro\u00dfen Stress<\/strong> setzt. Ich nenne dies das Boyfriend-Syndrom.  <\/p>\n<p>Die meisten Surfer haben keine Lust, mit ihrer Freundin, ihrem Freund oder manchmal sogar mit ihrem Kind im Schaum und den Wellen am Ufer zu bleiben, was von jedem qualifizierten Surflehrer empfohlen worden w\u00e4re. Sie k\u00f6nnen <strong>dem Ruf des Meeres<\/strong> nicht <strong>widerstehen<\/strong>. Schade f\u00fcr den Anf\u00e4nger, der sich in einer v\u00f6llig ungeeigneten Situation wiederfindet, die zu <strong>psychologischen Blockaden<\/strong> f\u00fchren kann.  <\/p>\n<h2>Nebenwirkung<\/h2>\n<p>Da sie <strong>von einem Mann traumatisiert<\/strong> wurden, vertrauen viele M\u00e4dchen, um das Vertrauen in die Meeresumwelt wieder zu erlangen, eher <strong>einer Lehrerin<\/strong> als einem m\u00e4nnlichen Erzieher. Sie gehen davon aus, dass eine Frau einen subtileren Ansatz als ein Mann haben wird. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Eine gute Fachkraft, ob Mann oder Frau<\/strong>, wird jedoch in der Lage sein, in ihrem p\u00e4dagogischen Ansatz Sanftheit und Feingef\u00fchl zu zeigen. Ich beanspruche f\u00fcr mich die F\u00e4higkeit, <strong>sensibel, sanft und einf\u00fchlsam<\/strong> zu sein, unabh\u00e4ngig vom Geschlecht. <\/p>\n<h2>Abhilfe<\/h2>\n<p>Eine <strong>allm\u00e4hliche Ann\u00e4herung an die aquatische Umwelt<\/strong> wird die Blockade \u00fcberwinden, es gibt keine irreversible Blockade.<\/p>\n<p>In der <strong>Ki Surf School<\/strong> nehme ich viele dieser \u201e<strong>verletzten V\u00f6ge<\/strong>l\u201c auf, die das Ergebnis eines zu groben Umgangs mit dieser Disziplin sind.<\/p>\n<p>Sie kennen jetzt ihre Grenzen und <strong>surfen mit Freude und Gelassenheit<\/strong>.<\/p><\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3272,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[228,185],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-alle","category-surfers-brain"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.5 - 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